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Our Care Totes are thoughtfully curated bundles of comfort, created for families who’ve experienced pregnancy or infant loss.  Every item has been intentionally chosen based on what helped us through our own grief in acknowledging it with softness, support, and love. You can request a tote for yourself or send one to someone you care about. 

Care Totes for Grieving Families

you don’t have to know what to say — you can send care instead.

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What's Included:

Each tote is thoughtfully curated based on what we wish we had.  

Hand-poured and softly scented, this candle is a gentle ritual — to honor a baby, hold space for grief, or simply create light when things feel dark.

Remembrance Candle

Just because. Grief is exhausting, and comfort matters. These are soft, grounding, and just for you.

Cozy Socks

Use these to treat yourself to takeout, a warm drink, or a ride when the world feels too heavy to drive through. Comfort should be accessible.

Uber Eats Gift Cards

The days will be long and rest may feel impossible. This soft mask is a small comfort to help you find moments of rest — when and where you can.

Nod Pods Eye Mask

A gentle, meaningful book that brought us comfort after losing our own son. It’s a reminder that the bond you share with your baby will never be broken — you’re always connected.

“The Invisible String” Book

These help soothe the physical pain that comes when your milk comes in. Because this part of loss is rarely talked about — but it matters.

Frida Heat Pads

Wear them, fidget with them, hold them. They were handmade with love — to help you remember your baby in your own way, on your own time.

Bracelets from Sophia’s House of Beads

You don’t have to go through this alone. This card includes helpful guidance for your loved ones — because it really does take a village to navigate this kind of grief. Find your point person. Let them support you.

Resources for Friends & Family